The body speaks the language of the person
Sexuality is not merely a biological activity. It touches identity, intimacy, the capacity to give life, and the whole person. Chastity helps integrate these powers so that we love in truth according to our state of life.
Marriage gives no one a right to coerce the other person's body. A sexual act that is imposed, creates fear, or disregards a spouse's condition and will is not an act of authentic love.
Suggested reading: 1 Corinthians 6:12-20 and 7:3-5. The body belongs to the Lord; married life calls for mutuality, care, and respect for one another.
Conversations to have before the wedding
A couple should discuss expectations about intimacy, reproductive health, experiences of trauma, pornography, digital boundaries, how to say “not yet,” and how to seek help. No one is required to recount details that cause renewed trauma; these matters may be discussed safely with a qualified professional.
Can I hear a limit set by the other person without sulking, exerting pressure, or treating it as rejection of me as a person?
Agree on three principles for intimacy: it is always safe to tell the truth; there will be no pressure or punishment; when pain, fear, or a difficulty persists, you will seek appropriate professional support.
References
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Sexuality, Chastity, and Respect
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