Consent stands at the center
In the rite, the Church asks about freedom, fidelity, permanence, and the acceptance of children; the couple expresses consent before the Church's authorized witness and two other witnesses. Rings are a sign; they do not replace the marriage covenant expressed in words.
The marriage of two Catholics is ordinarily celebrated within Mass; a mixed marriage or a marriage involving disparity of cult has an appropriate liturgical form. The couple should follow parish guidance and not assemble rites or personal vows that obscure the formula of consent.
Suggested reading: Colossians 3:12-17 or 1 Corinthians 12:31–13:8. Choose a reading not merely because it sounds beautiful, but because the Word of God will guide the covenant.
Prepare a celebration in which people can participate
Give priority to the rehearsal, readers of the Word of God, suitable sacred music, seating for older people, and accessibility for persons with disabilities. Family rites should be discussed beforehand so that they both preserve filial respect and honor the faith.
Of all the details being prepared, what is taking the most energy? Is that proportionate to the sacrament's meaning?
Read the words of consent aloud to one another. In your own words, each person should explain the four commitments about to be made and ask about any statement not yet truly understood.
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