An invitation, not pressure
The Catholic journey begins when a person freely seeks the truth and responds to God's invitation. Questions, hesitations, and even difficult experiences with religion can all be voiced honestly; faith does not mature by hiding them.
No one may be forced to receive Baptism, even as a condition for marriage. A person who wishes to marry a Catholic can receive guidance about marriage between a Catholic and a non-Catholic; the decision to enter the Church must arise from faith freely embraced.
Suggested reading: John 1:35-39. Jesus asks the two disciples, “What are you looking for?” and then invites them to come and stay with him.
Bring your whole story
Your companion needs to know your religious, family, and marital circumstances, including whether you may already have received baptism somewhere. These facts are not used to judge you, but to help the Church guide your journey properly and respect your conscience.
If there were no pressure from family, a loved one, or the community, what would I still want to discover about Jesus? What makes me most hesitant?
Write three sentences: what I am seeking; what I cannot yet believe; what I hope a companion will hear. Arrange a private conversation with a priest or the person responsible for the catechumenate.
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What Are You Seeking?
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